Removing self etcd member from cluster before shutdown

[makhov]

Description

Currently we turn off the k0s node first and then try to remove it from cluster on the leader node, which is incorrect order since etcd is turned off and we lost a quorum.

In this change node give up leadership, removes itself and then shutdowns k0s.

Type of change

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to not work as expected)
• Documentation update

How Has This Been Tested?

• Manual test
• Auto test added

Checklist

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• My commit messages are signed-off
• I have performed a self-review of my code
• I have commented my code, particularly in hard-to-understand areas
• I have made corresponding changes to the documentation
• My changes generate no new warnings
• I have added tests that prove my fix is effective or that my feature works
• New and existing unit tests pass locally with my changes
• Any dependent changes have been merged and published in downstream modules
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